18 hours agoMember-onlyMy Boyfriend Doesn’t Keep His Word, Should I Be Concerned?Reader Doesn’t Look Promising writes, When I first met my partner, I thought he was perfect: smart, funny, gorgeous, the total package. He was finishing a rigorous graduate program and had started looking for jobs in his field, and was looking forward to having custody of his daughter in the…Dating4 min readDating4 min read
1 day agoMember-onlyDoes Your Wife Really Enjoy Sex?I speak with many clients who feel dissatisfied with their sex lives. Often, they conceptualize the issue as one of frequency. They say that sex is fine and even “great” and their partner “really seems to enjoy themselves” but for some reason that partner still only wants it monthly or…Sex5 min readSex5 min read
2 days agoMember-only6 Ways To Deal With Your Intolerance Of Kid NoiseMany women that I work with have a real intolerance of noise, particularly kids bickering or yelling. This is something that many of us Highly Sensitive Women struggle with, and it can be very hard to deal with when you have little kids. …Parenting4 min readParenting4 min read
3 days agoMember-onlyCan A Baby Bring A Couple Closer?Often, I see situations where one partner wants to have a baby (or to have a second or third child) but the other partner says, “We can’t do that until we work on our marriage.” This is a version of when men won’t propose until the woman stops being upset…Parenting4 min readParenting4 min read
4 days agoMember-onlyWhy Your Wife Will Never Say She’s WrongMany men tell me that their wives will never admit they are wrong, and honestly I see this more than the gender inverse in couples counseling. …Depression6 min readDepression6 min read
5 days agoMember-onlyGuys Get Married In Order To Have Sex All The TimeIf you found this headline to be crazy and sensationalistic, then you are exactly my intended audience! It may come as a surprise to women to hear that a large part of their husbands’ original desire to get married was in order to have someone they love and find attractive…Sex4 min readSex4 min read
6 days agoMember-onlyMy Husband Is Obsessed With Working Out And It’s IrritatingListen to a related podcast here! Reader Too Much Of A Good Thing writes, I know this may sound like a dumb thing to complain about, but my husband is obsessed with working out. He goes to the gym every day including Sundays. He watches YouTube videos about squatting. Lately…Marriage4 min readMarriage4 min read
Dec 8Member-onlyMy Husband Wants Me To Eat Healthier But I Think He Just Isn’t Attracted To MeReader Loves Food writes, My husband and I have been married for eight years and have two children. I have put on about 10 pounds since we got married, which honestly isn’t bad in my opinion, compared to many women I know. I have two kids aged 5 and 1.5…Health5 min readHealth5 min read
Dec 7Member-onlyWhy Doesn’t Your Wife Tell You That She’s Upset Before She Eventually Explodes?Lots of men are in a situation where their wife tells them something like, “You were never good in bed” or “You have always been a jerk.” They feel understandably hurt and upset, thinking that if this issue had always been a problem, their wife should have told them earlier…Relationships4 min readRelationships4 min read
Dec 7Member-only6 Things That Men Want In BedListen to a podcast expanding on this post here! My post 6 Things That Women Want In Bed was well received by many readers who said I hit the nail on the head. A male reader asked me to write the same post from the male perspective. I responded that…Men6 min readMen6 min read