My Boyfriend Doesn’t Keep His Word, Should I Be Concerned?

Reader Doesn’t Look Promising writes,

When I first met my partner, I thought he was perfect: smart, funny, gorgeous, the total package. He was finishing a rigorous graduate program and had started looking for jobs in his field, and was looking forward to having custody of his daughter in the next year. I was coming out of a deep depression and a bout of unemployment, and he was like a big ray of sunshine. We’ve dated for about nine months, and in that time we’ve both managed to find good jobs, but I feel like things are getting…