So true. We go through life thinking things are right or wrong and then 50% of us feel so unhappy in our marriages we reach out into the world for more. We pull out some clowns, some rats, and then one or 2 unicorns if we're lucky. And we cling to them and they to us in our self-imposed bubbles. What happens next is very much up to the gods...if we think about this too much it will drive us insane... so we choose bliss over insanity for now. 100% with you dear Clara x