There’s this video on YouTube titled ’For Twenty Year Olds Who Have Never Been Loved.’ Well, I’m almost 21 years old, and I’ve never been in a relationship. I hope that doesn’t sound sad. But anyway, here’s why, and also why that can be a good thing. (Also, damn, why do I sound like a motivational speaker?) — Some people have asked me why I’m single. Is it because I want to focus on my academics so much? Is it because I have unrealistic standard based on Shawn Mendes and Peter Kavinsky? Is it because I’m an angry feminist who hates men? Or better yet, is it because…